How's that healing thing working out for you?

"But at a time when our discourse has become so sharply polarized – at a time when we are far too eager to lay the blame for all that ails the world at the feet of those who think differently than we do – it’s important for us to pause for a moment and make sure that we are talking with each other in a way that heals, not a way that wounds." Barack Obama, 1/12/11

 So how's that whole civility thing working out for ya'll?  Yeah, I didn't believe they meant it either.